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The Book Of Narcissism

Narcissistic Supply


Narcissist craves narcissistic supply.

Early childhood attachment trauma is common in those with narcissism (narcissistic abuse.) The narcissist was not properly linked to, or was not given enough affection, as a youngster. Rather of depending on basic human connection abilities, he developed a type of barter system to help him survive in relationships (because these were not properly internalized in his psyche.)

In order to maintain a connection with a narcissist, other people must pay him or her in the form of narcissistic supply. To put it another way, when a young child is not adequately connected to, comforted emotionally, and safeguarded, he learns survival skills for himself. Emotional manipulation and the construction of other personalities are two of the most effective means of ensuring one’s own survival.

Realize that persons who have had early attachment trauma, in terms of interpersonal connections, have a developmental delay.

The behavior of a three-year-old tantrum is something you may have observed in your loved one. This is most likely due to his emotional regression to an earlier stage of development after he was provoked by not getting his way in some way (one which he has not completed the development phase of maturing through.)

Because they haven’t gone through the stages of early childhood development at the correct time, children who are narcissistic have emotional development that is stunted.

Narcissists are never happy. When the narcissistic supply is used up, they quickly return to their empty state; it doesn’t endure. They are always running low on their emotional or narcissistic supplies. It’s as if the narcissistic supply tank has cracks at the bottom. No matter how hard you try, you will never be able to love your narcissist enough.

Summary

In order to maintain a connection with a narcissist, other people must pay him or her in the form of narcissistic supply. To put it another way, when a young child is not adequately connected to, comforted emotionally, and safeguarded, he learns survival skills for himself. Emotional manipulation and the construction of other personalities are two of the most effective means of ensuring one’s own survival. In order to maintain a connection with a narcissist, other people must pay him or her in the form of narcissistic supply. Self-protective survival skills are formed when a young kid is not emotionally comforted and safeguarded by his or her caregivers.

Emotional manipulation and the construction of other personalities are two of the most effective means of ensuring one’s own survival. They constantly have an empty emotional or narcissistic supply tank. No matter how hard you try, you will never be able to love your narcissist enough. Because they haven’t gone through the stages of early childhood development at the correct time, children who are narcissistic have emotional development that is stunted. In order to maintain a connection with a narcissist, other people must pay him or her in the form of narcissistic supply.

To put it another way, when a young child is not adequately connected to, comforted emotionally, and safeguarded, he learns survival skills for himself. Whether it be money, positive criticism, media attention, or a sexual conquest, a narcissist will put great importance on any of these things. They are always running low on their emotional or narcissistic supplies. No matter how hard you try, you will never be able to love your narcissist enough.